The central figure of a bachelorette party is of course the would-be bride. Since, the party is to celebrate the last days of her single life; her opinion is the most important factor in planning out the party. Naturally, the personality of the bachelorette turns out to be the deciding factor.
There are girls who love to have fun and prefer wild parties. On the other hand, there are girls who does not like so much of mess and prefers to be away from the spotlight. Naturally, the bachelorette parties would differ from each other in such cases.